Name Teti Febryanengsih NIM 18551058 TBI 5C Theme of essay is Gloomy

When you are born in this world, it is certain that it proves that you are able to live life in this world, whatever it is. Maybe when you were a child there were many things you didn't know about life, only playing, eating, then sleeping. But do you know what will happen and you will face when you turn 20 and over ??
I am a woman in my 20th year. I will tell you how hard life I faced when I started turning 20. When you are an adult people will treat you not like you treat others, never think everyone has the same principles and the same thoughts. When you give other people apples, maybe they will give you bananas, and most likely they will give you nothing.
It's easy for you if you are not the typical BAPERAN person, then how about the typical BAPERAN person
This is what will be the discussion, adulthood is a time where you are required to be okay in every situation, adulthood is where you have to be able to smile while your heart is breaking, maturity is when your heart wants to say 'YES' but circumstances force you to say 'NO' . That's the reality, that's what will happen.
Then what about the word 'DON'T CARE', if you believe that word is okay, then that's even better. But in general, when you say you won't care, everything that happens in your heart will get even more complicated
I honestly don't know very well, whether by becoming an adult, life will continue like this, or does this only apply to early adulthood ??
If at the age of 20th, you are still undergoing education, then stay away from the word dating before your education is complete. Because it will be more difficult if you meet the word "BROKEN HEART" believe it will spoil everything, you will be crushed if you meet that word, come back to if you are a feeling person, then everything will be very difficult. Because actually knowing that man will only give you momentary happiness, undo your intention to invest in disappointment yaaaa haha :v
As an adult you will feel that you are a burden, a burden for yourself and a burden for your family. There are times when you feel sorry for your parents where they are getting old but you can't give them anything. It was the worst phase I've ever experienced, seeing the blank stares of confused parents where to find money for school fees while you can't do anything yet.
But one thing you have to believe, life is fair. Remember god is not evil. Born in an underprivileged family but have a happy life because of the love and love of their parents. Born into a rich family, but never got complete love from his parents. Because actually the location of happiness is not in the throne, love and wealth, but happiness will come when you are always grateful