Why would someone feel an urge to be in a relationship?
“Why is he/she always dating someone?” a seemingly nosy question that whoever gets asked, in all likelihood, would feel uncomfortable or even frustrated. However, there is no room for doubt that such a question has been raised with disbelief inside people’s minds at least once or twice but has never been directly inquired for fear of scrutinizing others’ private life. In fact, there is a phrase called “desperation for love”. This is used to describe a fervent craving for companionship from a partner. It has been widely acknowledged that love can be expressed in a wealth of distinctive ways, namely the bond between a mother and her daughter, the bond between a child and his or her pet, or simply just an affection that someone has towards a particular place. With that being stated, the question of “why does it necessarily have to be romantically themed?” has been raised. Why is it that some people can only feel respected and appreciated when it comes to a relationship between two people? There are a handful of explanations for an individual’s desperation for a relationship, such a common yet perplexing phenomenon, the most plausible of which will be detailly discussed in this essay.
Firstly, an individual’s seek for love from a significant other could be ascribed to the loneliness that they have to suffer from. Loneliness causes people to feel empty, alone, and unwanted. This case is mostly applied to those who do not receive enough affection from their beloved ones. By this, I mean the lack of parental affection or peer support could greatly contribute to the existence of an inner void that needs to be filled. People who are lonely often crave human contact, but their state of mind makes it more difficult to form connections with others. This does not necessarily mean those who are surrounded by a wide variety of friends would not feel lonely. Loneliness, according to many experts, is not about being alone. Instead, if a person feels alone and isolated, then that is how loneliness plays into his or her state of mind. It is completely understandable if an individual senses loneliness while having a handful of friends around, for they could only feel safe and secured when receiving love from their significant other.
Another explanation for a person’s desire for companionship from a lover is to get over their previous one. This type of affair is called a “rebound relationship”, an undefined period following the break-up of a romantic relationship during which one of the partners becomes involved with someone else, despite the fact that they have not yet healed from the break-up. Initiating a rebound relationship is basically using another person to avoid facing the mental agony that has been left by an ex. This behavior is mostly prone to people who are either emotionally immature or incapable of dealing with their feelings in a healthy way. Instead of letting go of a relationship and giving themselves time to learn from past experience, they chose to jump right into a new relationship without considering whether they truly love their partner or just merely looking for someone who could hopefully replace their ex.
Last but not least, the fantasies coming from romantic movies and TV shows could be partly accountable for some people wishing to be loved by a significant other. It goes without saying that movies could portray the concept to which society strives for since these were demonstrated the way people aspire them to happen and similar to how they want their lives to be run. The ideal relationship displayed on a media platform, if viewed continually, could result in watchers’ longing for companionship from a lover. Teenagers or young adults in their early twenties are most likely to be caught in this situation since they are more exposed to romantically themed media than the other age groups. In this day and age, the image of a teenage girl longing for a precious yet unrealistic love story is no longer considered strange and unusual.
As these three main reasons unambiguously demonstrate, a fervent desire for companionship from an admirer could be attributed to an urge to fill the void inside a person’s soul. These voids can be created by different people in distinctive situations. However, they are most commonly formed on the grounds of a sense of loneliness, a yearning to rebound from the previous relationship or simply just a source of influence from romantic movies or gameshows.
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Grammar and spelling errors:
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Attributes: Values AverageValues Percentages(Values/AverageValues)% => Comments
Performance on Part of Speech:
To be verbs : 40.0 13.1623246493 304% => Less to be verbs wanted.
Auxiliary verbs: 14.0 7.85571142285 178% => OK
Conjunction : 28.0 10.4138276553 269% => Less conjunction wanted
Relative clauses : 22.0 7.30460921844 301% => Less relative clauses wanted (maybe 'which' is over used).
Pronoun: 60.0 24.0651302605 249% => Less pronouns wanted
Preposition: 103.0 41.998997996 245% => Less preposition wanted.
Nominalization: 13.0 8.3376753507 156% => OK
Performance on vocabulary words:
No of characters: 3759.0 1615.20841683 233% => Less number of characters wanted.
No of words: 746.0 315.596192385 236% => Less content wanted.
Chars per words: 5.03887399464 5.12529762239 98% => OK
Fourth root words length: 5.22618413065 4.20363070211 124% => OK
Word Length SD: 2.91168398015 2.80592935109 104% => OK
Unique words: 376.0 176.041082164 214% => Less unique words wanted.
Unique words percentage: 0.504021447721 0.561755894193 90% => More unique words wanted or less content wanted.
syllable_count: 1170.0 506.74238477 231% => syllable counts are too long.
avg_syllables_per_word: 1.6 1.60771543086 100% => OK
A sentence (or a clause, phrase) starts by:
Pronoun: 12.0 5.43587174349 221% => Less pronouns wanted as sentence beginning.
Article: 10.0 2.52805611222 396% => Less articles wanted as sentence beginning.
Subordination: 3.0 2.10420841683 143% => OK
Conjunction: 3.0 0.809619238477 371% => Less conjunction wanted as sentence beginning.
Preposition: 8.0 4.76152304609 168% => OK
Performance on sentences:
How many sentences: 30.0 16.0721442886 187% => OK
Sentence length: 24.0 20.2975951904 118% => OK
Sentence length SD: 59.3026606111 49.4020404114 120% => OK
Chars per sentence: 125.3 106.682146367 117% => OK
Words per sentence: 24.8666666667 20.7667163134 120% => OK
Discourse Markers: 2.96666666667 7.06120827912 42% => More transition words/phrases wanted.
Paragraphs: 5.0 4.38176352705 114% => OK
Language errors: 9.0 5.01903807615 179% => OK
Sentences with positive sentiment : 20.0 8.67935871743 230% => Less positive sentences wanted.
Sentences with negative sentiment : 9.0 3.9879759519 226% => Less negative sentences wanted.
Sentences with neutral sentiment: 1.0 3.4128256513 29% => More facts, knowledge or examples wanted.
What are sentences with positive/Negative/neutral sentiment?
Coherence and Cohesion:
Essay topic to essay body coherence: 0.281068442982 0.244688304435 115% => OK
Sentence topic coherence: 0.072049321282 0.084324248473 85% => OK
Sentence topic coherence SD: 0.0558976724844 0.0667982634062 84% => OK
Paragraph topic coherence: 0.159859983534 0.151304729494 106% => OK
Paragraph topic coherence SD: 0.0565173706111 0.056905535591 99% => OK
Essay readability:
automated_readability_index: 14.7 13.0946893788 112% => OK
flesch_reading_ease: 47.12 50.2224549098 94% => OK
smog_index: 8.8 7.44779559118 118% => OK
flesch_kincaid_grade: 12.7 11.3001002004 112% => OK
coleman_liau_index: 12.25 12.4159519038 99% => OK
dale_chall_readability_score: 8.7 8.58950901804 101% => OK
difficult_words: 183.0 78.4519038076 233% => Less difficult words wanted.
linsear_write_formula: 11.0 9.78957915832 112% => OK
gunning_fog: 11.6 10.1190380762 115% => OK
text_standard: 9.0 10.7795591182 83% => OK
What are above readability scores?
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Rates: 61.797752809 out of 100
Scores by essay e-grader: 5.5 Out of 9
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Note: the e-grader does NOT examine the meaning of words and ideas. VIP users will receive further evaluations by advanced module of e-grader and human graders.
Grammar and spelling errors:
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Message: The pronoun 'she' must be used with a third-person verb: 'dates'.
Suggestion: dates
“Why is he/she always dating someone?” a seemingly nosy question tha...
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Message: Possible agreement error. Did you mean 'handfuls', 'handsful'?
Suggestion: handfuls; handsful
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Message: Use simply 'experience'.
Suggestion: experience
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...longer considered strange and unusual. As these three main reasons unambiguousl...
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Transition Words or Phrases used:
but, first, firstly, however, if, look, so, then, while, as to, at least, i mean, in fact
Attributes: Values AverageValues Percentages(Values/AverageValues)% => Comments
Performance on Part of Speech:
To be verbs : 40.0 13.1623246493 304% => Less to be verbs wanted.
Auxiliary verbs: 14.0 7.85571142285 178% => OK
Conjunction : 28.0 10.4138276553 269% => Less conjunction wanted
Relative clauses : 22.0 7.30460921844 301% => Less relative clauses wanted (maybe 'which' is over used).
Pronoun: 60.0 24.0651302605 249% => Less pronouns wanted
Preposition: 103.0 41.998997996 245% => Less preposition wanted.
Nominalization: 13.0 8.3376753507 156% => OK
Performance on vocabulary words:
No of characters: 3759.0 1615.20841683 233% => Less number of characters wanted.
No of words: 746.0 315.596192385 236% => Less content wanted.
Chars per words: 5.03887399464 5.12529762239 98% => OK
Fourth root words length: 5.22618413065 4.20363070211 124% => OK
Word Length SD: 2.91168398015 2.80592935109 104% => OK
Unique words: 376.0 176.041082164 214% => Less unique words wanted.
Unique words percentage: 0.504021447721 0.561755894193 90% => More unique words wanted or less content wanted.
syllable_count: 1170.0 506.74238477 231% => syllable counts are too long.
avg_syllables_per_word: 1.6 1.60771543086 100% => OK
A sentence (or a clause, phrase) starts by:
Pronoun: 12.0 5.43587174349 221% => Less pronouns wanted as sentence beginning.
Article: 10.0 2.52805611222 396% => Less articles wanted as sentence beginning.
Subordination: 3.0 2.10420841683 143% => OK
Conjunction: 3.0 0.809619238477 371% => Less conjunction wanted as sentence beginning.
Preposition: 8.0 4.76152304609 168% => OK
Performance on sentences:
How many sentences: 30.0 16.0721442886 187% => OK
Sentence length: 24.0 20.2975951904 118% => OK
Sentence length SD: 59.3026606111 49.4020404114 120% => OK
Chars per sentence: 125.3 106.682146367 117% => OK
Words per sentence: 24.8666666667 20.7667163134 120% => OK
Discourse Markers: 2.96666666667 7.06120827912 42% => More transition words/phrases wanted.
Paragraphs: 5.0 4.38176352705 114% => OK
Language errors: 9.0 5.01903807615 179% => OK
Sentences with positive sentiment : 20.0 8.67935871743 230% => Less positive sentences wanted.
Sentences with negative sentiment : 9.0 3.9879759519 226% => Less negative sentences wanted.
Sentences with neutral sentiment: 1.0 3.4128256513 29% => More facts, knowledge or examples wanted.
What are sentences with positive/Negative/neutral sentiment?
Coherence and Cohesion:
Essay topic to essay body coherence: 0.281068442982 0.244688304435 115% => OK
Sentence topic coherence: 0.072049321282 0.084324248473 85% => OK
Sentence topic coherence SD: 0.0558976724844 0.0667982634062 84% => OK
Paragraph topic coherence: 0.159859983534 0.151304729494 106% => OK
Paragraph topic coherence SD: 0.0565173706111 0.056905535591 99% => OK
Essay readability:
automated_readability_index: 14.7 13.0946893788 112% => OK
flesch_reading_ease: 47.12 50.2224549098 94% => OK
smog_index: 8.8 7.44779559118 118% => OK
flesch_kincaid_grade: 12.7 11.3001002004 112% => OK
coleman_liau_index: 12.25 12.4159519038 99% => OK
dale_chall_readability_score: 8.7 8.58950901804 101% => OK
difficult_words: 183.0 78.4519038076 233% => Less difficult words wanted.
linsear_write_formula: 11.0 9.78957915832 112% => OK
gunning_fog: 11.6 10.1190380762 115% => OK
text_standard: 9.0 10.7795591182 83% => OK
What are above readability scores?
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Rates: 61.797752809 out of 100
Scores by essay e-grader: 5.5 Out of 9
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Note: the e-grader does NOT examine the meaning of words and ideas. VIP users will receive further evaluations by advanced module of e-grader and human graders.